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Did you remember your first real teenage love? Did you remember laughs with friends while talking about your crash? Most of these loves ended up with terrible break ups but some of them last forever. This is a story about a teenage, long distance love that rises every day more and more.

Did you ever see a complete stranger you just can’t take your eyes off? Aleksandra saw Jovan during a walk with friends and that stranger’s smile has driven her crazy almost every day. But, in her mind, it was just a silly thought until her friend asks her if she know this handsome guy. Imagine that, her good-looking stranger became someone her friends know. Some people call it coincidence or destiny, I’ll name it love.

She decided to take the opportunity life gave her and then she sent him a friend request on Facebook. After his response, Aleksandra started with living her 21st-century teenage dream. There was the only one tiny miny problem, her prince went to Switzerland. Messages on Facebook were lined one after the other every single day, but Aleksandra thought he will never want to meet her for real.

It was one of the usual going outs with friends. Until she saw the guy she dreamed of every single day. As almost any girl of her ages, she started blushing and feeling shy hoping he won’t see her. Her heart stopped when he looked at her. They finally met.

When Jovan founds out there is another guy interested in Aleksandra, he acted quickly and effective. Two chatty birds became lovers. But Jovan returned to Switzerland. Their love survived through all the days of distance between them. Even when he was at his home in Croatia, near Aleksandra, state border divided them from one another. Neither border police could stop them to love each other.

They are not just cute and lovely couple, they also have so many funny events in their relationships which made their love even stronger and more interested through all these years.

After one of a long talks on Skype and typing on Facebook, busy day and short sleep,  sunrise reminded Aleksandra that it was time for school. Tired of classes, she returned home and went for some napping time. At the same time, Jovan came from Switzerland without telling Aleksandra anything about it. Excited about seeing his beautiful girl, Jovan asked local people where Aleksandra lives, knocked on her door, met her mother and came in her room to wake her up. Can you imagine, you’re 16 years old, your boyfriend who you think is in Switzerland is waking you up, your mom is standing at your room door and you DON’T have any makeup! And your dad is watching TV in living room! When meeting Jovan, Aleksandra’s Grandmother told him he’s neither first nor her last boyfriend, so who cares.

To be clear, everyone in Aleksandra’s family likes Jovan.

Spending time at Jovan’s cottage was a precious thing they enjoyed whenever it was possible. Once, during their stay in a cottage, Jovan said to Aleksandra to close her eyes and held out her palm which she did. They laughed a lot. He played some fortune teller and said she’s going to have twins, a boy and a girl. He said it is his future too. Then he said she’s going to marry at an age of 23 and him at 26.

Years passed since that day in a cottage. It was a morning when Aleksandra realized she wants a burek (meat pie well known in Bosnia, Serbia and Turkey) for breakfast and Jovan realized he wants Aleksandra to be his wife. While she was eating their favorite dish, Jovan asked her question every guy is scared of – ‘Will you marry me?’. A mouthful of burek and with enormous happiness, Aleksandra said yes.

They married 1st of August 2015, the year Aleksandra is 23 and Jovan 26 years old. A happily wedding was held in Kozarska Dubica were their guests enjoyed celebration.

And now, there is just one little thing which remained hidden for now – how many kids they will have. Let’s trust Jovan’s skills in seeing future and wish them soon two happy healthy babies to make their love even more powerful.

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Sjećate li se vaše prve ljubavi, razgovora provedenih sa prijateljima pričajući o toj posebnoj osobi koja je ukrala vaše srce? Većina ovih ludih osjećaja završava stresnim raskidima kada mislimo da je cijeli svijet stao i srušio se baš na nas. Kasnije shvatimo da je sve to dio odrastanja. Ali neke ljubavi ostanu trajne, poput ove koja je odrastala zajedno sa Aleksandrom i Jovanom.

Da li vam se dogodilo da vidite potpunog stranca sa kog ne možete skinuti pogled? Aleksandra je ugledala Jovana tokom šetnje po gradu i od tad ga nije mogla zaboraviti. Ali, svaki put kad bi se sjetila osmijeha tog slatkog stranca, poslije par minuta maštanja, samu sebe bi korila kako razmišlja o glupostima i vraćala se u realnost koja joj je govorila da je vjerovatnost da se ponovo sretnu i upoznaju gotovo nikakva. Ali onda se desilo nešto što je promijenilo sve, Aleksandrinog stranca poznavali su neki njeni prijatelji. Neki ovakve stvari zovu sudbinom, ja mislim da je to čista ljubav.

Presrećna što Jovan nije samo neko o kome će sanjati, odlučila je iskoristiti priliku koja joj se pružila i javila se Jovanu preko Facebook-a. Nakon kratkih poruka, shvatila je da joj taj slatki neznanac izmiče – Jovan je morao otići u Švajcarsku. Ali poruke na Facebook-u nisu izostajale, slatke riječi nizale su se svakodnevno, ali se Aleksandra često pribojavala kako će sve ostati samo na njima.

Uslijedio je jedan od uobičajenih izlazaka sa prijateljima sve do onog časa kada je Aleksandra ugledala Jovana. Istog časa, strah od konačnog upoznavanja preplavio je njeno tijelo, crveni obrazi odavali su njene pokušaje da djeluje smireno, pa, iako je jedva čekala trenutak kada će se upoznati, sada se nadala da je neće vidjeti.

A onda ju je ugledao.

Opušteni Jovan pokušavao je glumiti poluzainteresovanost sve dok nije načuo kako se drugom momku sviđa Aleksandra. Odlučan da ne izgubi takvu slatkicu, poklonio joj je najljepši poljubac. I tako je sve počelo.

Jovan se morao vratiti u Švajcarsku, ali njihova ljubav bila je jača od kilometara koji su ih razdvajali. Čak i kad je bio blizu Aleksandre, dijelila ih je granica između dvije države, ali su bili jači od svega. Oni nisu samo predivan par koji je odrastao zajedno, njihova veza prepuna je zanimljivih događaja koji su ih još čvršće vezivali jedno uz drugo tokom svih ovih godina.

Poslije jednog od dugih razgovora na Skype-u, dana punog obaveza i kratkog sna, izlazak sunca podsjetio je Aleksandru da je vrijeme za školu. Kada se vratila kući, sve što je htjela bilo je malo sna, kako bi kad se probudi ponovo mogla uživati u glasu svog princa. U isto vrijeme, Jovan je već putovao nazad kako bi iznenadio Aleksandru svojim dolaskom. Uzbuđen što će vidjeti svoju djevojku poslije toliko vremena, Jovan se raspitao u naselju gdje Aleksandra tačno živi, pozvao je telefonom, ali se Aleksandra nije javljala jer je spavala. Odlučan u namjeri da je iznenadi, pozvonio je na njena vrata, upoznao njenu mamu i ušao u sobu da probudi svoju princezu. Zamislite situaciju, imate 16 godina, otvarate oči i vidite svog momka koji bi trebalo da je u Švajcarskoj kako sjedi pored vas dok vaša mama stoji na vratima sobe, a vi nemate apsolutno ni mrvu šminke na sebi! A sve se to dešava dok tata i baka gledaju TV u dnevnoj sobi! To je svakako bio jedan od najzanimljivih trenutaka koji su proživjeli.

Tokom jednog od boravaka u Jovanovoj vikendici, Jovan je zamolio Aleksandru da zatvori oči i ispruži dlan. Osjećajući nešto hladno na dlanu, suzbijala je smijeh, a onda otvorila oči kada joj je rekao da će imati blizance, dječaka i djevojčicu. Onda joj je otkrio malu tajnu, kada je gatao sam sebi, ispalo mu je isto. A onda su okrenuli sve na šalu i gledali u budućnost kad će se ko vjenčati. Ona sa 23, a Jovan sa 26 godina, rekao je lančić.

Godine su prošle nakon tog dana na vikendici. Bilo je jutro kada je Aleksandra za doručak poželjela njihovo omiljeno jelo – burek. Tada je i Jovan poželio nešto, Aleksandru za svoju ženu. Dok je ona uživala u zalogajima najdraže pite, Jovan joj je postavio pitanje o kom svaka djevojka mašta – da li će se udati za njega. Usta prepunih bureka, a očiju punih suza, sa ogromnom srećom u glasu, Aleksandra je odgovorila sa „da“.

Vjenčali su se 1. avgusta 2015, u godini kada je Aleksandra napunila 23, a Jovan 26 godina. Veselo vjenčanje održano je u Kozarskoj Dubici gdje su svi gosti uživali u pozitivnoj energiji koju su širili njih dvoje.

Ostala je još samo jedna mala stvar koju ne znamo još uvijek – koliko će imati djece. Ali hajde da vjerujemo Jovanovim sposobnostima gledanja u budućnost i da im poželimo dvije vesele i zdrave bebe da učine njihov život još zanimljivijim, a ljubav koju dijele učine još snažnijom.

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2 responses to “Aleksandra & Jovan”

  1. mare says:

    Bravo, bravo, bravo!

  2. Love your pictures and your style of wedding photography!
    ValPhotography – Hochzeitsfotograf Wien

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